Recipe to Mend a Broken Heart

Is there truly a recipe to mend a broken heart? Is there a magic wand to wave and make all of the hurt go away?

I am looking for that magical solution to mend a broken heart. That recipe that directs me straight out of this black hole, and straight back into the arms of my true love.

Growing up I read fairy tales that always ended “and they lived happily ever after”. So what happened here? Where did all of my happiness go? My ‘happily ever after’ just disappeared and the ‘depressed for the rest of my life’ just kicked in. The first documented case of death by broken heart is about to come to pass.

I desperately want my ex back. I have tried everything I know to get him to return. I have tried desperately to convince him that I am the love of his life, and that he cannot live without me. I have apologized for everything I ever did wrong, and promised to change for good if only he will take me back.

I cannot begin to tell you how many times I have called him, until finally he quit even answering the phone. I sent him countless text messages, but I quit receiving any back. I have even tried to second guess where he might be going for the evening, and show up there first. I have begged him with all of my being to please reconsider.

Do you see where am I going with this? Nowhere, and fast – because everything I had done was wrong. The more I would say, the more and more defensive, angry and distant he became. I was beginning to believe that my situation was impossible and I had forever ruined any chance I might have had to getting back together.

I realized that instead of a recipe to mend a broken heart, I initiated a recipe to further break a heart – my own. What I needed was a plan, a proven plan, to help me win my ex back. A system that would allow me to get my head on straight and concentrate on positive techniques to recapture the romance we once had. A plan that would take me by the hand and show me step by step what to do, what to say, how to act, and even give me advice on what to eat.

I could only imagine getting back together and being able to listen to music again without being tortured by past memories, going about my day with a light heart, getting my appetite back, sleeping all through the night again, being able to make plans for the future instead of living in the past, and just plain mending a broken heart.